Sunday, December 15, 2013

Par Core

I am an Allen.  What this means is I often fall into the category of having more "balls" than brain.  I have to back this up with the fact that I am reasonably athletic and I grew up watching my 2 older brothers push the limits in every area known in the recreation world.  They are both still alive and walking although they are showing some signs of aging.  My younger brother has also proven that he can play just as hard and suffer the consequences of lack of judgement such as not seeking medical attention for a broken ankle that will most likely hurt for the rest of his life.  But all in all they are a fun and adventurous group of nice guys.  But not examples of safety.

Saturday Troy and I took the family to black rock to play and jump off the rock.  We jumped and jumped and then these two old guys came up and one of them did a back flip.  I was impressed.  I have done thousands of back flips…on a trampoline.  But the thought had been formed, the idea developed and the lack of judgement confirmed.  I needed to flip off that rock!

My turn came.  I got to the edge, turned around, and froze.  I could not do it.  I turned back around and jumped straight down.  I landed with some disappointment.  I really wanted to do more.  I knew I had more in me, so I climbed back up.  Again I got to the edge turned around and could not bring myself to jump.  So I turned and faced the water and front flipped...

I closed my eyes as I rotated through the air.  I had done it!  I had thought about the jump, the flip, but not the landing.  I did not open up, I did not stop turning.  I hit the water with my face.  Pain slammed through my frame.  I was frozen face down in the water for what seemed a long time, then I turned my body over and brought my face out, but I could not breath.  My lungs would not respond to the logic of my brain.  Then I thought, if the air will not go in, blow out.  It worked.  I could blow out.  Then the new air came in.  The pain was excruciating.  What was I thinking?  I must look like an idiot.  I am an idiot.  I am not a diver and apparently I am not a flipper.  I need diving lessons or a new brain.

The pain is going away.  I can swim again.  I am not broken, thank God.  My face feels like I just jumped off a cliff and landed on it.  Oh wait, I did!

Let me back up to September when I was just having my first Cross Country practice for Pukalani School.  Ethan came to help me coach and he decided to jump off a wall and try to land on a fence rail that was in front of a steep hill.  He cleared the fence and landed on the hill and broke/ fractured/ badly sprained his ankle.  The doctors could not tell from the x-ray (welcome to medicine in Maui) but it hurt very bad and he was on crutches for several weeks and I lost my assistant coach.

Troy and I gave him a lot of grief over his lack of judgement after that "Jump".  Ethan - I take it all back.  It's in your blood.  You are an Allen.  

Pray that God will bless us with more brains and soft landings.

Christmas Letter 2014

The Anderson Family continues on,
Healthy, Happy and Strong.

Happy Days to you,
and Merry Christmas is our song.

We sing with joy,
that our days with peace will be filled,
and love upon all will be sealed.



Sydney still swims with grace,
upon the piano she keeps the pace.

Ethan uses fin and board,
upon his uke he plays a chord.

Ember loves to smile and charm,
she holds a violin upon her arm.

Sophie keeps up with the rest,
always reminding us that she is the best.

Troy and I are still in love,
Enjoying this family sent from above.


2014 Merry Christmas

Motivated

I have been blessed to be gifted many amazing friends.  Today after reading their blogs, I felt the intense desire to update mine.  So for an easy post, I am going to post my Christmas letter.  But have no fear.  There is more to come.  So much more...

Sunday, March 31, 2013

Easter Sacrament Talk 2013


Aloha Brothers and Sisters,
I am very grateful to have the opportunity to talk to you today. I am also very humbled by the topic and the Holiday which we are celebrating today. Easter is one of my favorite Holidays. I love the colors, the spring time themes, the baby animals and the simplicity of the Egg. The egg is a world wide symbol of Easter. Officially adopted by the christian religion a few years back. It represents life and that is what we are celebrating today. Easter is a celebration of life. It is a celebration of Christ's resurrection. It is a celebration of Hope. It is a celebration of deaths defeat. We are so blessed to live in this time when the world has witnessed literal resurrection.
In all recorded history prior to the birth, life, crucifixion and resurrection of Christ there was no one else resurrected from the dead. All death was an eternal slumber. The sting of death was heavy, lonely, oppressive and unending.
I want to gently review the last 10 days of Christ's life. Each day could be a focus of great discussion so please bear with me as I highlight the points that will help illustrate our focus today.
If we go all the way back to Bethany, a suburb of Jerusalem, and go to the house of Jesus's friend Lazarus, the very same friend that Jesus raised from the dead, you will remember that Mary took some very costly oil and anointed the feet of Jesus. Judas Iscariot who later betrays Jesus asks why she is not selling the oil to help the poor. Judas did not really care for the poor, but his intent was evil and selfish, to possibly steal the oil for his gain. Jesus replies that “the poor always ye have with you, but me ye have not always.” This was his first warning to them that things were going to change.
Next was Jesus's triumphal entry into Jerusalem. Christ tells his disciples to go and get him a donkey. He even tells then that the donkey will have a baby and to bring it along too.
Why did Jesus want to ride in on a donkey? We can turn to the Old testament and read from Zachariah 9:9:
9 ¶Rejoice greatly, O daughter of Zion; shout, O daughter of Jerusalem: behold, thy bKing cometh unto thee: he is just, and having salvation; lowly, and riding upon an ass, and upon a colt the foal of an ass.
Remember that the old testament was the scripture at this time. The new testament had not been written yet. Do you think that some of the people recognized what was happening? I think they did because they started spreading their garments in his path and cutting down branches to lay before him. The people cried hosanna and followed him as he made his Triumphal entry into Jerusalem.
The next day Jesus was hungry and he saw a fig tree with leaves but no fruit so he cursed the tree and it withered away. He continued on to the temple where he became angry because of the filth that had defiled his fathers house. He overthrew the tables of money changers and Jesus taught: Is it not written, My house shall be called of all nations the house of prayer? but ye have made it a den of thieves Mark 11:17
Do you think that the fruitless fig tree was a symbol of the fruitless people that were corrupting the temple?
Christ was teaching a great lesson in purification in preparation of the coming of the ressurection.
The chief priests and scribes were getting very upset with Jesus, because they had been profiting from the trade going on at the temple.
Now once the money changers were out, there was room for miracles. The blind and the lame came in and Christ healed them. The people again shouted hosanna and again the chief judges were sore displeased because of the attention Jesus was getting.
Good easter questions:
What cleaning do our temples need? What fruits are we bearing?
Jesus then gets questions from chief priests and Pharisees. Jesus is pretty blunt in telling them that they are not humble and that they did not value the knowledge that they preach. He tells them that they are hypocrites. This makes them madder and they want to lay their hands on him, but they fear the multitude of people.
Jesus continues teaching and the disciples gratefully continued recording his teachings. He gave some famous parables like the 10 virgins, the parable of the talents and the goats. These were full of learning on preparation for the second coming. I don’t know how much his disciples understood, but we are still learning from them and they give us hope.
Hope of our resurrection.
It is almost passover now in our timeline review of Jesus's life and he asks the disciples to find a place to keep the passover meal.
The passover is another great scripture story and it is very symbolic of Christ. He is the Lamb that was slain so that we could escape death.
Now the pharisees have not gone out of the picture. They are still very much upset by Jesus and they want to destroy him.
It is important to remember that the passover meal is the Last Supper. At this meal Jesus teaches so much:
  • He washes their feet.
  • He explains that one of them will betray him.
  • He teaches them the sacrament
  • He comforts them
  • He gives then the commandment to Love on Another.
  • He teaches about the Holy Ghost
  • He then prays for his disciples, and prays for each of us as we believe.
These are all easter gifts to ponder on.
After dinner Jesus took his disciples to a garden, it was a garden that he went to often. He asked them to wait for him and he took Peter, James and John with him. He told them that his heart was very sorrowful and he asked them to stay and keep watch. Christ prayed unto the father;
And he said, Abba, Father, all things are possible unto thee; take away this cup from me: nevertheless not what I will, but what thou wilt. Mark 14:36
An angel came to strengthen him and again he prayed:
And being in an agony he prayed more earnestly: and his sweat was as it were great drops of blood falling down to the ground.
He doeth not anything save it be for the benefit of the world; for he loveth the world, even that he layeth down his own life that he may draw call men unto him. Wherefore, he commandeth none that they shall not partake of his salvation.
It was after this horrible experience, where Christ suffered unimaginable pain to redeem us from our sins, that Judas shows up with a multitude and betrays Jesus with a kiss. This was the pre-arranged token that Judas had given the priests, scribes and elders so that they would know which man was the Christ. Christ had descended low in the garden, but he had lower to go to finish the work of the atonement.

The mob laid their hands on Jesus, his disciples fled and now alone and in the dark of the night they led him to the house of the high priest. It is interesting the note that at this time in Jewish law, it was illegal to arrest a person in the dark of the night. Caiaphas, the high priest finds him guilty of blasphemy, and they bind him and take him to Pontuis Pilate the governor. Pilate questions him but does not find any fault with him, so he tries to let him go, but the voice of the people is strong and they call for the thief barbaras to be released and Jesus to be crucified.

Next Jesus is sent to be scourged. Scourging was a horrible form of punishment or torture where the victim was whipped with several cords of leather with bone or metal wrapped on the ends. These were to catch the flesh and tear it as the victim was scourged. The typical sentence was 40 lashes.

After enduring this, our precious savior was mocked as they placed a purple robe on his back and pressed a crown of thorns on his head, saying “Hail, King of the Jews” He was then led away to be crucified on the hill of Golgotha which ment the place of a skull.

The next hours of recorded history are some of the most uncomfortable events to read. Spikes would driven into his hands and wrists, then into his feet. Some mocked him and others “bewailed and lamented him” As he was lifted up upon the cross Pilate wrote “Jesus of Nazareth King of the Jews” on a sign above his head.

Christ in this agony asked his father to forgive those who crucified him, comforted those that were weeping and made sure his mother was looked after by one of his beloved disciples. Even in his extreme agony he was thinking about serving and loving others.

The earth became covered in darkness, Christ endured unimaginable pain and trusted in his father in Heaven even as his father had to withdraw his spirit. Then Christ said “Father into thy hands I commend my spirit” and his earthly life came to an end, because he chose to die. He had the power to live, he choose to die so that we can live!

His body was given to Joseph of Aramathia who had a new tomb, where he lay Christ's body. To Christs friends, he was gone. His end had come and his eternal slumber had started.

After Christ's body had been placed in the tomb and wrapped in linen, the door to the tomb was closed and even sealed with guards placed outside to prevent anyone from stealing or disturbing it. The sealing and guards were ordered by Herod upon the request of the chief judges. The following was the sabbath day and nothing much of note happened other than I imagine that it was a time of great mourning among the followers of Jesus. Then on the third day, being the first day of the week, some women came to the tomb with spices to to dress the body of Jesus.

They found the door of the tomb rolled away and two angels that asked the very important question “Why seek ye the living among the dead?
He is not here, but is arisen: remember how he spake unto you when he was yet in Galilee,
Saying, The Son of man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men, and be crucified, and the third day rise again. Luke 24:5-7
Imagine your self, filled with grief, finding the body of your friend missing and angels telling you that he has risen? What joy, what absolute light and happiness would fill your soul, your heart and your eyes!
Mary Magdalene was the first recorded to see the resurrected Christ. There in the garden outside of the tomb they shared the tender moments that redefined the eternal outlook on the separation and finality of death.
The woman ran sharing the news with the disciples. The news that Jesus was alive. This is the news that we are still called upon to share. The joy of this knowledge fills our hearts just as we fill our easter eggs, the promise of life after death for one and all is as real and possible as a precious baby chick that comes out of its protective egg.
John recorded in Chapter 20 verse
31 But these are written, that ye might believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God; and that believing ye might have life through his name.
28 Behold, hath the Lord commanded any that they should not partake of his goodness? Behold I say unto you, Nay; but all men are privileged the one like unto the other, and none are forbidden.

8 Wherefore, how great the importance to make these things known unto the inhabitants of the earth, that they may know that there is no flesh that can dwell in the presence of God, save it be through the merits, and mercy, and grace of the Holy Messiah, who layeth down his life according to the flesh, and taketh it again by the power of the Spirit, that he may bring to pass the resurrection of the dead, being the first that should rise.

Today I stand before you and I testify that I know that Jesus is alive, that he broke the bands of death. I know that I will live again after I die. The gift of the resurrection is given to all men and all men will live again. It is our privilege and responsibility to share the joy of our knowledge with those we love”
I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.




Friday, January 25, 2013

My Dad

My wonderful Dad turned 69 yesterday.  
His family motto is WORK HARD AND PLAY HARDER.  
Here are 69 memories that we have shared:
Love you DAD!



1.  Riding together on the Vespa.  The wind in my face and your strong arms on each side of me.  I always knew good things were in store when we went out together like; Doughnuts from Angels Bakery!

2.  Being carried under the branches of the trees in the front yard.  The air was cool, the sky was dark except for the stars and your body was warm.  You calmed my fears, tickled my face with the leaves and tucked me back in bed.

3. Dancing.  Oh how I love to dance with you!  In the kitchen, in the living room, on the boat, at my wedding...anywhere.

4.  Laying under the stars at Lake Mary and listening to classic love songs, sung by the pop singers of your generation.  I still love 50's music.

5.  Holding on to your legs while hiding under the driving console of the barge while you captained our vessel through the raging storms of Lake Powell.  I was never scared knowing you were at the helm.

6.  Pulling off your socks at the end of one of your long work days.  It was so hard to get those socks off those big feet!


7.  Sitting on your back while you read the newspaper lying on your stomach.  

8.  Having you help me with math and thinking that I would never be as good at math as you were.  Never understanding your way of solving the equations.

9.  Sitting on the gas tank of the Motorguzzi and driving on the freeway - fast - across town to eat a hot fudge Sunday from Swensen's.  Remember the coupons?

10.  Going skinny dipping at the lake with the whole family and screaming from the pinching shark.

11.  Airplane rides.  

12.  Riding on the disk with you.  Again holding on to your strong arms, doing circles, falling down, doing it again.

13.  Very early I have a memory of you and I snow skiing at McMillen Mesa.  It was dark and I was standing on your skis.  I would put my foot in the middle and touch the snow as we zoomed down the hill and my foot would fly back.  That was fun!

14.  Going out sledding at night is one of my fondest memories.  We would get so tired walking back up the hill and then you would come out with the vespa and tow us up the hill, our hero!

15.  When we were tired of sliding the hill, you would tow us all over on the sled behind the vespa.  I can still taste the exhaust.

16.  Hiking through the woods with Jonathan and Mom and we would search for the perfect bent over pine tree.  Then Jonathan and I would climb on and you would bounce us so high.  Best ride ever!

17.  You always had pink baby lotion on your work bench.  I thought that was so cute that my dad had pink lotion on his bench.  It was probably the cheapest one at the store and it just lasted for many years!

18.  You always tried to teach me perspective in drawing.  I could still use some lessons.




19.  I remember when Boomer ate my hamster.  It was horrible and I was hysterical.  You took what was left and in the dark night buried him in the woods.  When you came back and told me that he was okay now and that he was up in heaven.  I had peace.

20. I still remember sitting in church next to you and holding hands.  Your hands are always warm.

21.  We raced up the hill to Nana's house once.  You could run so fast.  I knew no one could run as fast as my dad.  I was about 6.

22.  You rode your bike to Sedona all the time.  You let me come when I got a 10 speed for Christmas one year.  I was about 8.  You would help push me up the hills and remind me that "what ever goes up must come down".  Life is kinda like that too...ups and downs, you helped me learn to roll with it and enjoy the ride.

23.  I wrecked on that bike ride and had the most road rash I have ever seen.  I was not happy.  You had gone ahead and I screamed to call you back.  You came back for me and got me back on the bike.  We nursed our way to the spring where you helped to wash me up.  You taught me that when you fall down you get back up and you don't ride on the edge of the road when there are cinders all over the side.

24.  I remember watching Invasion of the body snatchers and Invasion of the killer bees with you late at night.  I still like to stay up late with a good movie or a book.

25.  You place your finger to your teeth when you are reading a good book.

26.  Disneyland.  Going on thunder mountain over and over.

27.  Eating at the Hacienda.  Me:  Cheese enchilada I loved the salad garnish in the enchilada sauce.  Sopapilla's for dessert!

28.  Not being able to spell.

29.  You bought me a ring when I had Sydney.  I gave it to her when she turned 13.  It has 3 Sapphires because she made our little family 3.  It has 4 diamonds for the men that will be a part of her life:  Her Heavenly Father, her Earthly father, her Grandfather and her husband.

30.  You sent Mom to help me every time a had a baby.  You knew I needed my Mom.

31.  You love all my kids and they adore you.  Stories.



32.  I can still picture you rocking Ethan to sleep.  You would sing him Bobba cha bobba cha wa wa and dance.  He fell asleep every time.

33.  You bought a trampoline and told Jonathan and I that it was just for you and mom to exercise on.  We believed you for a minute, but then we took over.  I don't remember ever seeing you bounce on it, but we had hours of fun on that thing!

34.  Riding our bikes up on Appalachian and playing the red Barron and the blue bomber.

35.  Telling me that I could not get my drivers license until I could:  Change a tire, clean and gap a spark plug, check and change the oil.  There may have been more.  I have rarely been so motivated to learn.

36.  Arm exercises while driving.  Good time management.

37.  You drove GG to California after she passed away.  You said she was with you the whole time.

38.  I loved watching you kiss mom in the Kitchen.

39.  You could get mom to taste something sweet even when she was trying to be good by just telling her to try it and then spit it out.  She would.

40.  You starting walking to work through the woods.  I had ridden my bike up that way a few times and I loved comparing stories with you.

41.  Sitting on the side of Highway 89 for hours while you went to get gas.  I don't know why we ran out, but I guess you may have wanted to push the limits a bit.  I do that with things too.

42.  Hiking in Sycamore canyon.  Getting lost and having the most amazing adventure ever.

43.  Getting poison oak and suffering together.  Learning to be tough.

44.  Remember when we decided to race mom and Jonathan home from the top of Mt. Elden.  We hiked down and they drove.  We went down Pete's dragon and I got to do a lot of sliding.  I got a big hole in my pants.  That was fun, I don't remember who won.

45.  Going to baskin robbins and you would always get nutty coconut.  Jonathan would get bubble gum and then want to trade.  You were nice and you would trade him.

46.  Day old doughnuts at Safeway.

47.  One morning we went out for a bike ride.  We decided to get breakfast at a little Mexican food hole in the wall that you said mom would never go to.  I felt like a rebel.  It was yummy!

48.  You do not like to play games much, but I do remember learning to play blackjack at the kitchen table with poker chips.



49.  You came out for a visit once and I was feeling a little insecure about my parenting abilities.  I asked you if you thought I was doing okay.  You reassured me, told me I was doing fine and gave me a hug.  I have felt much better since then.

50.  Accentuate the positive, and don't mess with mister in-between!

51.  Orange juice flavored water.  Good resourcefulness.

52.  Watching you disk at sunset with the sun shining through the water from the spray.  You always looked so happy and content.

53.  MaryAnn no ski, MaryAnn can ski.  If you love them, tease them a little.

54.  Mutt.  Call it like it is.

55.  Lake Mary evenings and cooking on the hibachi.  Music.  Checking out the dam.  Catching snails. Looking for eagles.

56.  Riding bikes around Mormon Lake Lodge.

57.  Playing catch over the houseboat with the light sticks.

58.  Anything you can do I can do better.

59.  We took a family trip in the white van when I was about 16.  I think we went to Oregon.  It was a lot of driving and everyone was taking turns at the wheel.  You gave me a chance to drive while everyone was sleeping.  I was excited but then I became very nervous as I realized the speed I was supposed to maintain while I had the responsibility of every one's lives in the back.  You sat with me and made sure everything was going smooth.  It was a fun trip.

60.  Picking blackberries in Oak creek, eating berries in Utah, oh! and the peaches!

61.  Riding to Sedona in the Baby seat and you picking me flowers as we flew down the road.

62.  The end of the school year picnic that the ward had every year was fun, but you were the best dad there because you would actually play with us and get us spinning so fast on the tire swing.

63.  You taught me many things but one of them is not to stand in front of the referigerator with the door open.  I still expect to hear your voice yelling from the living room if I stand there too long.

64.  You had a tattoo booth at the ward halloween parties.  My favorite pictures were the ones with a heart around the word Mom.

65.  You can start singing a song from almost any sentence.  You have a wonderful voice.

66.  Remember hiking up to Bridle Vale falls in Telluride and singing I stand all amazed, with most of the right words.  You taught me to sing strong from my heart.

67. You let me help you rewire the cabin cruiser that was sitting in the driveway.  It was winter and cold so the tarp was on and the soldering iron was our only heat source.  I was amazed that you knew how to do what you were doing.  I thought you were the smartest man alive.  That was a fun boat.

68.  You love my husband and you are his friend.  You taught him to windsurf and how to do so many other things.  I am so grateful that you hired the young boy that needed a job.  I needed to get him trained.  I love thinking about all your adventures together and I look forward to many more.

69.  You always made me feel like I could do anything, because you knew you could do anything.  You are always game for any adventure, any vacation, any work and any type of play.  You work hard so you can play harder.  I am your daughter, in optimism, in work and in play.





Happy Birthday Dad.  Lets go make some more memories.

Hugs and Kisses,
Amy